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Thursday, October 28, 2010

Self Motivation 1

ENDURANCE is the key.

Big girls don't cry

Survived my darkest hour, My faith kept me alive
I picked myself back up, Hold my head up high
I was not built to break
I didn't know my own strength

Life's like a novel with the end ripped out
The edge of a canyon with only one way down
Take what you're given before it's gone
And start holdin' on, keep holdin' on

Keep on shining, Keep on smiling
Don't lose faith and don't lose heart
When you're crying
Just keep trying to remind yourself
You're a shining star, Yes you are

Cause you're amazing just the way you are

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

星座与我

摘自面子书我爱我的星座

年轻的魔羯都是很单纯的,我想他们也不会知道自己将从天使变成恶魔,魔羯座的人天生善良,感情也都很脆弱,也许会因为一些很小的事情难过很长时间,所以他 们通常在表面表现的酷酷的与事隔离的样子,其实他们只是不希望让别人看到他脆弱的一面,坚强,理智,承受是魔羯的代名词,他们并不是很随便的表达自己所 想,他们希望了解身边所有人的性格,并不是因为好奇,好象只是因为一种安全感,为Bold了保护自己魔羯生出了一种特殊能力。

魔羯相对任何星座来比,能在最段时间看出一个人的性格无论他们在如何隐藏,这点很像天蝎但是他们却看不出对方的心,他们很容易就会了解到他们身边每一个 人的优缺点,但是他们通常不会说出来,也不会太介意,所有的魔羯都很包容对方请记得,如果有一只魔羯指出你的缺点那一定是友善的,虽然他们会用一种讽刺的 口气来指出.

所有魔羯都拥有2个性格,只是大部分魔羯都不愿意去接受,因为他们希望自己永远的傻傻的活下去,魔羯的坏可以媲美过所有星座,也许他们不相信,但是随着时 间的积累魔羯的人在慢慢变坏,其实这也是一种自我保护,他们需要知道了解自己最后的一张王牌,做不做就看对方是否达到让魔羯报复的地步了,这并不是在表 扬,似乎用阴险可以形容,当魔羯讨厌一个人的时候那就是一种绝对,魔羯不会随便讨厌一个人,但是如果哪个人做的太过分,这个人会从魔羯心底彻底抹杀,如果 这个人激怒了魔羯,呵呵那么这个人就只能等着灾难的降临。

魔羯是个比较城府的人,他们不会表面去得罪了,但是他们会计划着让这个人知道他所做的事情将会给自己带来多大的回报,魔羯的报复手段极其残忍,他会加倍的 还给你,(如果你有一天遭受到摸名的灾难那么你去想想你在什么时候得罪了魔羯)魔羯并不会随便的去加害一个人,因为魔羯也讨厌自己的坏,他们是天才的杀 手,一切的一切从很早以前就做好计划,而且这些计划在没有事件出现前他们就在考虑如何完美并无破绽的进行报复计划,也许这些和他的悲观有些联系,魔羯的人 很了解世界,但他们固执的相信美好尽管自己知道那是不可能的,大部分魔羯都讨厌坏坏的自己,当然想抛弃自己是不可能的。

朋友(最喜欢装傻的星座)

魔羯的人都很没有安全感,他们喜欢在任何人面前装傻,这可不是一般的装傻能力,魔羯人聪明就在于这点,他们认为只有傻子在会不牵扯到任何伤害,与其做 一个聪明的人不如当一个傻子平凡而又随意,如果不是值得魔羯相信的朋友魔羯永远不会让对方知道自己会有智慧,而无论安全与不安全魔羯对朋友都很真,他们很 珍惜些朋友。 他们最希望获得朋友的信任,如果从一个朋友那里得不到信任,他不会再与这个朋友交往下去.和魔羯接触过的人都会认为他们脾气很好,好的似乎发傻,其实他们 并不是脾气好,只是他们很会装,因为他们了解身边的朋友的所有性格,所以他们在包容对方,就算你做了什么过分的事,他们也早就想考虑好如果对方为什么会这 样做,最明显一点,你们可以去看看身边魔羯的朋友,无论你怎么做那些魔羯都不会很惊讶的,其实他们已经知道你为什么会这样了.魔羯的交友观也很随便,他们 可能会和贵族很好,也可能会和乞丐聊天,一切的一切只是心灵的交往,很少有魔羯会有势力眼,除非你这个人品太差了。

感情(超级白痴)

魔羯的人傻的可以,他们并不了解爱情,但是他们只知道爱的感觉,对于他们任何感情的表达都是一种感觉,他们很认真的感受每一个感觉,大部分感觉都可以一个 人去感觉,最失败的爱却要两个人,傻傻的魔羯一开始会认为,爱你是我自己的事情和你没关系,可是到后来越来越感觉不是滋味,于是开始对对方表白,表白成功 后却不知道如何走下一步,也许是太不浪漫在作祟,魔羯的人可能会拿任何事情开玩笑,但是在爱情方面只要他说出”我爱你”或者话题谈到将来结婚,那么他绝对 不是在开玩笑,魔羯很物质,但是这点和金牛处女不一样,他们的物质表现在爱上,他们认为给所爱的人带来无限的物质的就是最大的幸福,因为他们很自卑,唯一 能用自己努力获得来的就只有物质了。当自己努力的去让自己所爱的人幸福的时候,自己所爱的人却因为其他的其他离开了他,而到最后自己却不明白自己到底做错了什么,真是可怜的家伙们。

追求: 魔羯的追求是认真的,只要对方不让魔羯认为完全没有机会,魔羯就会像疯子一样的追求着,他们其实对自己非常没有信心,唯一的动力只是相信自己在爱着,为了对的起自己的感情,为了认真的去爱一回.

被追求: 魔羯对于不喜欢的人不会给予任何机会,魔羯的人很善良,而且他们知道长痛不如短痛的道理,如果魔羯勉强接受了你,那也是出于一种同情心,但 是交往没几天他们就开始内疚,他们认为怜悯的爱对追求者来说是一种伤害,他们会尽量的躲避并且对追求者很冷淡追求者尽量的让追求者开始讨厌她/他.如果追 求者不理解的话,放心最长不超过一年,魔羯会很理智的告诉你别在联系了,她/他会消失的无影无纵.

拒绝: 如果魔羯真的爱了就不会去拒绝你,永远不会。

被拒绝: 魔羯比任何一个星座对感情都很认真,恢复伤痕的时间也很长,他们会选择消失,这样对你对他都有好处,因为他怕多看你一眼而又再次无法自拔,他怕再多看你一眼,心如刀割.....

Friday, October 22, 2010

名句精华

Credit to Facebook

一、
永远不必向任何人做出解释
因为喜欢你的人根本不需要,不喜欢你的人根本不会相信

二、
别在喜悦时许下承诺
别在忧伤时做出回答
别在愤怒时做下决定
凡事三思而后行

三、
时间有如流水
你永远无法触摸同样的流水两遍
已流逝的流水不会再倒流
享受生命的每个当下

四、
当你持续说你非常忙碌,你永远抽不出时间
当你持续把事情搁到明天,你的明天永远不会来

五、
曾经拥有的,不要忘记
已经得到的,更要珍惜
属于自己的,不要放弃
已经失去的,留着回忆
想要得到的,必须努力
最重要的,好好爱惜自己

六、
哭,不代表我屈服
退一步,不象征我认输
放手,不代表我放弃
微笑,不意味我快乐

七、
有时候失望也是一种幸福
因为有所期待才会失望
有时候遗憾也是一种幸福
因为还有值得遗憾的事情

八、
现代人的生活状态:
上今天的班,睡昨天的觉,花明天的钱
我以为小鸟飞不过沧海
是因为没有飞跃的勇气
十年以后我才发现
不是小鸟飞不过去
而是沧海的尽头没了等待

九、
注意你的思想,因为它将组成你的语言
注意你的语言,因为它将导致你的行为
注意你的行为,因为它将形成你的习惯
注意你的习惯,因为它将演变你的性格
注意你的性格,因为它就是你的命运

十、
选择一个朋友,就是选择一种生活方式
自己修生养性是交到好朋友的前提
等于为自己打开了最友善的世界
让自己的人生具有光彩
真正的朋友不是在一起有聊不完的话题
而是即使不说一句话也不觉得尴尬

十一、
成熟不是人的心变老,是泪在打转仍能微笑
走的最急的,都是最美的风景
伤得最深的,总是最真的感情
收拾心情,继续向前
错过花,你将收获雨
错过雨,你会遇到彩虹

十二、
花儿不为谁开,也可为自己而开
世界不为谁存在,也可为自己而存在
花未全开,月未圆
是人间最好的境界
花一旦全开,马上就要凋谢
月一旦全圆,马上就要缺损
而未全开未全圆,仍使你心有所期待、有所憧憬

十三、
世界没有喜剧与悲剧之分
如果你能从悲剧中走出来,就是戏剧
如果你沉湎于戏剧中,那就是悲剧
人生的意义不在于拿得一手好牌
而是在于打好一手坏牌

十四、
时间是治疗心灵创伤的大师
但绝不是解决问题的高手
世上只有想不通的人
没有走不通的路

十五、
看的是书,读的是世界
沏的是茶,尝的是生活
斟的是酒,品的是艰辛
人生就像一张单程车票
没有彩排,每场都是现场直播
把握好每次演出的机会
将生活中点滴的往事细细回味
伤心时的泪,开心事的醉
都是因追求而可贵
日落不是岁月的过
风起不是树林的错
只要爱过等过付出过
天堂里的笑声不是传说

Zero EQ

There are times when I am too tired to pretend that everything is alright. Sorry to everyone around me for being ignorant as to allow myself to sulk over such trivial matter.

It doesn't feel good when all the hard work you put into for so long are all to waste. And it definitely sucks to fail others as well as yourself. Things repeat themselves way to frequent.

There are times when you just happened to be overconfident in yourself. This is such time...

I am just a meek human being in this enormous galaxy. I need a pat on the head, some reassurance that things would get better. Can you lend me a shoulder instead of being so ignorant?

Where has all my emotional intelligent went? Please get a life and stop all the rants and rantings. Compensation is needed for mistakes made. Perhaps this is payback time.

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Break of The Day

I had been leading an extreme sedentary lifestyle since like forever. Thanks to my friends (我的七个朋友) here, I find the reason and motivation to stop the bumming and get my lazy bum moving.

The early bird gets the worm, though I doubted I am the worm. Its 6.30 in the morning and the sky is like a painting block, painted with different colours as time passed by. Who would have guessed the sky from USM campus could appeared so dainty.






This clump of cloud is supposed to looked like a bearded old man

First ray of the sunlight

The first ray of the sunlight, a significance of hope. Its time to stop my reverie, retrieve my soul which got lost, keep a close eye to it, never to let it strays off again.

Saturday, October 16, 2010

Randomness

Here's a random update of life recently. With final exam around the corner plus assignments and tests ahead, my life is supposed to suck to the max right? But you are way wrong! Instead life had been quite a bliss which doubled my guilt and confirmed my misery later on.

So what's hot lately? I bet no one would miss Sushi King's RM2 Bonanza. Even me who don't frequent Japanese cuisine took up the promo. So off to AutoCity straight after class last Wednesday.

Nothing new. Lots of sushi, pilling sushi plates and people stuffing themselves with more sushi. For me its just unagi and golden ball. Haha. I guess the wind from the Land of the Rising Sun didn't hit me.

Sushi on belt. There's the sign warning customers not to touch the belt. I wondered what would happen if someone actually did.

This is just about quarter of the whole

These are the seven friends of mine(我的七个朋友). Say cheese~

It had been a whole month since I last saw my parents and I guess they missed me. Lol. Phone calls are very few as well. My parents are not good at crapping so we may skip that.

Since the parents are so eager to see their daughter, they came all the way to Nibong Tebal. Haha. Its right timing as I am in desperate need to get myself a new pairs of shoes. Say no to soggy feet!

I brought them for Korean cuisine. Hehe. My preference. Of course this is my treat since they came all the way and I am no longer a little girl who can kept on taking and no giving back.

A little too formal here. Hehe

My chicken bibimbap

Spicy beef ramen

Seafood ramen


So this is what I got for myself. Note that I only got a new pair cause the old ones are no longer functional. And I wondered why are they all white? Guessed I had too many black and red stuff. However no doubt they will got dirty twice faster.

My new slippers

Kappo. Anyone heard of this brand? Lol

And that ends this post. I should resume to my study and get back my wandering heart.

Meaningful Quotes

Credit to Facebook

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel, and then regret it.

2. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.

3. Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, and the romance in a relationship -- and find out that you still care for that person.

4. A sad thing in life is, you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be , and you just have to let go.

5. When the door of happiness closes, another opens. But often times we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.

6. The best kind of friend is the kind whom you can sit on porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you have ever had.

7. It is true that we do not know what we have until we lose it, but it is also true that we do not know what we have been missing until it arrives.

8. When you were born, you were crying, and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

9. There are things you would love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear them from, but do not be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from his heart.

10. Never say goodbye if you still want to try. Never give up if you still feel you can go on. Never say you do not love a person anymore if you cannot let go.

11. Love comes to those who still hope although they have been disappointed, to those who still belive although they have been betrayed, to those who still love although they have been hurt before.

12. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone. But it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

13. Do not go for looks, they can deceive. Do not go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Hope you find the one that makes you smile.

14. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past. You can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

15. Dream what you want to dream. Go where you want to go. Be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and only one chance to do all the things you want to do.

16. May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, and enough hope to make you happy.

17. Always put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person, too.

18. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck a life. A timely word may level stress. A loving word may heal and bless.

19. The beginning of love is to let those we love just be themselves and not twist them with our own image. Otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.

20. The happiest of people do not necessarily have the best of everything. They just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

21. Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried; for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.

22. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.

Sunday, October 10, 2010

世界上唯独欺骗不了的是自己的心


Credit to Facebook

1.有时候不是不懂,只是不想懂;有时候不是不知道,只是不想说出来;有时候不是不明白,而是明白了也不知道该怎么做,于是就保持了沉默。
2.永远太远,我们都承诺不起。时光变换,若干年后,变了的恐怕不只是容颜。
3.因为清楚地明白得不到我想要的,所以就选择了放弃;不知道这样做是对还是错,那么就让时间来裁决吧。
4.在第一次选择坚强的时候,一定要想清楚:你是否做好了承受一切的准备。因为一旦你选择了坚强,即使只是假装的,你也必须一直坚持下去。因为你曾经的坚强会让人以为即使再大的苦,你也撑得住。
5. “即使我穿过经年,也抹不去时差”。因为世界上没有任何两个人可以站在地球的同一点上,所以我们之间永远存在着无法跨越的距离。
6. “没有过不去的坎”我们所缺少的只是勇气而已。
7. “不被理解的弱小,只好一直坚强”有时候坚强也是一种无奈。
8. “得之我幸,失之我命”永远不要对别人要求太高,因为没有谁有义务一定要帮助你。
9.感谢那些给你伤害的人,因为他教会了你成长。
10.在可以牵手的时候要记得珍惜,在需要分手的时候也不要犹豫。要“拿得起,放得下”。
11.最好的辛苦就是别人承认你的付出。
12.他口口声声地对她说:“你一定要幸福!”临别的时候还在重复着这句话,可是,他却不知道,她的幸福需要他来成全,也只有他才能成全。他却把她拱手让给了别人,那么她又怎么会幸福?
13.真正的寂寞,不是一个人的形单影只,而是心灵深处的孤寂。
14.寂寞是一种无法排遣的情绪,那感觉就像:即使有很多人在你周围喧嚣,如果没有人触摸到你的灵魂,你仍然会觉得寂寞。
15.当一件事情自己没有能力死撑的时候,就要学会放弃,懂得选择。
16.人生有太多无奈,有时候为了得到我们想要的东西,就不得不勉强自己去做不喜欢做的事情。
17.虽然时光变换了容颜,却抹不去深藏的记忆。当二十几岁的我们坐在一起谈起十几岁的往事的时候,感觉一切好像又回到了从前。
18.失恋的感觉就像心口破了个大洞,怎么填都填不满。--------《剪刀石头布》
19.一辈子太久,我只许当下。
20.如果说重逢是为了另一场忘记,我宁愿从未和你相聚。
21.有些距离以为自己可以跨越,实则不然;有些东西只能在记忆里绚烂,在现实中一触即碎。
22.有人说“拒绝别人靠近,只是害怕别人看见自己的败絮”,是另一种自卑。
23.有时候喜欢是一种习惯;有时候喜欢是一种寄托。
24.我原以为只要努力,时间空间都不是距离。现在才明白,原来这一切都只是我一个人在卖力演出的木偶戏。
25.我等着有人为我兑现承诺,只是眼看着日期一天天地到来,那人还没有来,我怕他忘记,又怕他太忙来不及兑现,所以只好一个人勇敢去面对。
26. “心有多大,舞台就有多大”如果连奢想都不敢有,又怎么会有成功的希望?
27.谁能对谁好,一辈子不变?从来就没有不老的誓言。

Saturday, October 9, 2010

Wishing Dandelion

It had been quite some time since I last wrote a proper entry. All the assignments and due dates killed my mood. Not to mention final is around the corner. If I were to countdown, it would be 30 days left in exact.

Had been leading life like a wanderer roaming the desert. My face is now raw from the beating of the sand churning along the wind.

I wish I am a mind reader. Then I will know what to expect and what to hope for. I wish I am a sorceress. Then I can take control over things. At least my own mind.

And it felt awful not to get something you wanted so badly. Maybe what I should do is readjust my focus. I should just be contented with my current state, not being greedy yearning for things which are not meant for me.

Saturday, October 2, 2010

Smile

おめでとうございます

축하 해요

felicitaciones

My regard that it will last FOREVER. Cheers!~

对的人

戴爱玲 - 对的人

词:姚谦
曲:Keith Stuart

你问在我心中 是否还苦恼
那次受伤 否决了爱的好
谢谢你的关照 我一切都好
一个人 不算困扰

那次流过的泪 让我学习到
如何祝福 如何转身不要
在眼泪体会到 与自己拥抱
爱不是一种需要 是一种对照

能愿意为了一份爱付出去多少
然后得到多少并不计较
当我想清楚的时候 我就算已经准备好
放手去爱 海阔天空 oh yeah~~

爱虽然很美妙
却不能为了寂寞 又陷了泥沼

爱要耐心等待 仔细寻找 感觉很重要
宁可空白了手 等候一次 真心的拥抱
我相信在这个世界上 一定会遇到
对的人出现 在眼角