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Tuesday, September 28, 2010

当你扛不住的时候就读一遍

Credit to Facebook via 情人杰

1,是你的,永遠都是你的;不是你的,不管你怎麼掙,怎麼搶,也都不會屬於你;

2,並不是聊得來,就適合在一起;並不是適合,就能夠在一起;並不是能夠在一起,就會永遠在一起;也並不是永遠在一起了就會幸福。

3,走的最急的是最美的風景;傷的最深的是最真的感情。

4,當身邊的朋友說你是瘋子的時候,成功離你不遠了。

5,在事實面前,你的想像力越發達,後果就越不堪設想。

6,地球是運動的,一個人不可能永遠處在倒霉的位置。

7,你永遠看不見我眼裡的淚水,因為只有你不在的時候,我才會哭泣。

8,時間就像一張網,你撒在哪裡,收穫就在哪裡。

9,理想和現實總是有差距的,幸好有差距,不然,誰還稀罕理想。

10,人生的兩大悲劇莫過於:得不到想要東西和得到不想要的東西。

11,成熟不是心變老,而是,當眼淚在眼睛裡打轉時卻還保持微笑。

12,女人要常常告誡自己:「不要在一顆樹上吊死」,否則,你將會很慘。

13,愛情就像手裡的沙子,攥的越緊,流的越快。

14,低頭要有勇氣,抬頭要有底氣。

15,人生就像一杯茶,苦...也只會是一陣子,不會苦一輩子。

16,傻與不傻,要看你會不會裝傻。

17,女人用友情拒絕愛情,男人用友情換取愛情。

18,你以為最酸的感覺莫過於吃醋,不是的,最酸的感覺是你無權吃醋。

19,真正的朋友是什麼?真正的的朋友是把你看透了,還喜歡你、願意和你成為朋友的人。

20,當我們搬開了別人的絆腳石時,也許恰恰是在為自己鋪路。

21,如果無法忘記他,就不要忘記好了,真正的忘記是不需要努力的。

22,再醜的人也能結婚,再美的人也會單身。

23,因為愛過,所以慈悲;因為懂得,所以寬恕。

24,某些人的愛情,只是一種「當時的情緒」,如果對方錯將這份情緒當做長遠的愛情,是本身的幼稚。

25,男人哭了,是因為他真的愛了;女人哭了,是因為她真的放棄了。

26,能夠說出的委屈,便不是委屈;能夠搶走的愛人,便不是愛人。

27,當一個女子在看天空的時候,她並不是想尋找什麼,她只是寂寞。

28,無論怎樣,一個人藉故墮落,總是不值得原諒的,越是沒人愛,越要愛自己。

29,對不起是一種真誠,沒關係是一種風度;如果你付出了真誠,卻得不到風度,那只能說明對方的無知與粗俗。

30,人們日常所犯的最大的錯誤,是對陌生人太客氣,而對最親密的人太苛刻,把這個壞習慣改過來,天下太平。

Saturday, September 18, 2010

不舍得.舍不得

城市的夜景
槟岛的美食
我不舍得

旷阔的超市
舒适的书店
我不舍得

家里的冷气
厨房的冰箱
我不舍得

家庭的温暖
父母的关怀
我不舍得

安逸的生活
轻松的步伐
我不舍得

Friday, September 17, 2010

My Beloved

Everyone has this someone whom they keep dear to their heart. Be it you don't see each other always due to distance or other factors, you will trust this person the most, talk and ask for advises regardless it is useful or not. You just want to share everything. I have this someone too, who I cherish, look up to and wish to keep forever.

I LOVE YOU

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

特别


黄龄- 特别

词:姚若龙
曲:R. LO

只剩一个人的海边 脚步被浪花淹灭
像刚才没有人在 我身边
流星没听清许愿 就堕落不见
感情 曾多灿烂也熄灭
惋惜 会在泪水里沉淀

随着你的情绪转变 走过不同的世界
从兴奋好奇怀疑 到疲倦
想用更爱来解决 动摇的一切
可惜 越不放手越决裂
紧握 只会让痛更强烈

就把你当成一个纪念 不看待成一种伤悲
不曾疯狂地爱怎么能体会 Wooh~
一段 完美

我深爱过你的特别 所以不后悔
我们之间暗潮连绵 快乐苦痛都加倍
还是认为你最特别 却不再挽回
回心碎的拥抱 适合浅尝不适合深深地陶醉

幸福不远


郭书瑶 - 幸福不远

曲:周杰伦

我们的歌曲 我听了好几十遍
我知道 你不会再出现
巷口的蛋糕店 一个人吃也很甜
我相信 幸福离我不远

别想了 怎么呢 过去了 爱已不见
你走了 难过了 快乐呢 只好算了
应该很多人像我一样 隐藏每次心酸
交给老天去安排

熟悉的街道 我走了好几遍
我知道 你不会再出现
别再自怨自怜 总有可以靠的肩
我相信 幸福离我不远

别想了 怎么呢 过去了 爱已不见
你走了 难过了 快乐呢 只好算了
我想很多人像我一样 不会说出不安
在人群前装坚强

我的悸动 我的汹涌 没有人知道
你要不要我要不要 该放就放掉
别再偷偷流泪 用微笑来承接
幸福要靠时间 证明

面朝阳光 大步向前 一定会更好
灰灰的云 灰灰的天 等会就散了
把你压进心底 腾空我的心里
我才又看见
好的人出现在身边

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Entry After The 100th

Without me realising I had hit my 100th entry. Woots!~ Wonder how did I ever came up with so much to write. Pretty much crap I guess. Hehe.

Anyhow, thanks to all the readers who took the trouble to spend few minutes in their lifetime to read about my life and whatever crap I can come up with to fill my entries. Totally grateful and utmost appreciation.

Hereby sharing something very meaningful which I came across on some graphics.
The most tiring thing to do? To think
The most expensive? Smile
The hardest to regain? Trust
The most painful? Loss
The easiest escape? To pretend
The most challenging? To move on
The bravest thing to do? To love
The most effective solution? To pray

Holiday is coming to an end real soon and I have to set a new resolution once again. Something I must really live out else its doom for me. DIET on both food and entertainment! Say NO to slothfulness! Say NO to gluttony!

Sunday, September 12, 2010

Black Sunday

This morning I definitely got up from the wrong side of the bed. Things certainly did not went smoothly for me. I had a bad hair day, my super dry hair sticking out at all ends followed by the return of the red-eyed monster, I am not done, my new shoes got trampled on and lost a bead on the very first day I wore it! What else more could go wrong?!

But alas I was wrong. There are greater misfortune in store for me. Just wait until you get the whole story of it.

In my 19 years walking the earth, I seldom to never eat 'hokkien mee', also known as Penang prawn noodles. My family and friends sure love it a lot but it never managed to hold my heart. I remember the last time I had 'hokkien mee' was during my high school years which was few years back.

So what happened was that I suddenly out of no where I had this idea of eating 'hokkien mee'. Yeah, I was that random. I don't think I even like 'hokkien mee' in the first place, but I certainly don't despise it. Besides my sis and parents love it a whole lot. Out of ten times they would have it for eight times.

We, me and my parents, took the trouble to go all the way to Lebuh Presgrave, recommended by my friends. Since parking place is really limited, we even parked my car few miles away and walked there just to find that the stall is NOT OPEN! I had done my homework before this. The stall is usually closed on Thursday, but what happened was they went for a wedding dinner. Ended up having some tasteless Fish Meat Bihun which costs me RM3.80. Sweat.

Time Square is just somewhere nearby so we dropped by to grab something and have a look. That's when the worst happened. When we were done and ready to go back home, the ever faithful 19 years old car failed to start!! My dad calmly checked the signal, lights and everything else. Appears that the battery should be in good condition. But the car just won't start!

My mum frantically looked through the her contact list and my dad's phone book. To our dismay, there was actually no one we can ask for help. Right that moment I suddenly realised that we had no one else. What happened to all their friends and our relatives at Penang? How on this earth that we could reach for no one in moment like this?

I went for the security in Sunshine City and the man in charge was helpful enough to try his best to assist us. However we meet some obstacles as the people at in the security booth was not there all the while. Bad customer service I must say. Fortunately we didn't met with any serious accident or some sort.

I prayed so hard and God sent us a good Samaritan, a lady working in the departmental store who met with similar situation. She even took the trouble to call her dad and helped us to get in line with a foreman. The foreman couldn't make it to the scene as it was already late plus its a Sunday, so we had to leave the car right there till tomorrow when we can get our foreman to fix the car for us. Although in the end the car still failed to function, I was very grateful by the willingness of the lady to help us out, which is something she was not obliged to do. I wondered if i will do the same if I were in her shoes.

After 45 minutes stucked in Time Square's car park, we finally managed to go home, courtesy to my aunt who came to our rescue.

This incident left me pondering how I should put God's command 'love your neighbour' into practice. I want to serve others and not to be served. I want to start right now, right here.

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Trip to Thailand

Went on a trip to Thailand with both my parents on Thursday. After a 4 hours ride in the bus from 8am to 12pm, which is 11am in Thailand time, we finally arrived at Hatyai. Due to the schedule where we will be going to Songkla beach first before checking into our hotel, the tourist guide brought us for lunch at a typical Thailand restaurant with atap roof and we were served with dishes cooked in Thai methods. 150 Baht per pax. Too bad I wasn't able to snap any pictures due to the inconveniences.

Another 1 hour journey and we reached Somali each at Songkla where the famous mermaid statue is located. There are a lot of vendors selling varieties of goods alongside the beach. My parents bought souvenirs of the mermaid mimicked pen holder at 10 Baht each. Super cheap!


Thai ice-cream cart

Selling roasted peanuts in the traditional way

Accessories

Various stalls selling the same thing, coconut water and atap seeds

A booth along the beach



See the mermaid? Its surrounded by tourists taking pictures


The black rocks on the beach

On our way back to the hotel, we passed by a temple where a huge sleeping buddha is located. It is strikingly painted in gold. There are other buddha as well such as the four-faced buddha and 'guan yin'.



At around 7pm Malaysia time, we finally checked into our room in Novotel Hotel again. It's a strategic location as it is located in the middle of the chaos where shopping can be done within walking distance. The ambiance of the hotel is nothing one can complain much about as well.

Sit back while resting legs before the journey at night continues. The window beside can overlook the whole city.

And tadaa~ I spotted Torres in the fridge. Hehe

What's for dinner? Having no where else to go and limited energy left, we went for McDonalds opposite Novotel.

We had Samurai Pork Burger and Pineapple Pie which are not available in Malaysia. Yummy.

Swensen's is just beside and we heard that the price is cheaper there so we went there to have a try. I guess we did ordered some local specialty with atap seeds and cashew nuts. Haha. But the price is of no differences.


We went for a walk nearby before going back to our room and registered for the day. I wondered if the people there sleep that early as the streets are almost quiet already at around 10 something.

Next morning I woke at 8am Malaysia time and got ready for our morning shopping. Hehe. Full of hope to at least get myself something. We went to Plaza Shopping Centre recommended by our tourist guide. According to her there are more choices there so why not listen to the experienced?

Went there by 'tut-tut' as its beyond walking distance. 20 Baht each for a ride. I'm not sure if distance is taken into account for that rate

A dress for myself. Hopefully this is not too girly. Hehe. Managed to cut the price from 350 Baht to 200 Baht.

I had been eyeing this kinda shoes since the first day I got there. Sold in most places. Got it at 220 Baht reduced from 350 Baht.

In conclusion, always bargain for the price when you shop at Hatyai. Cut it half and the vendors lose nothing.

Before heading back to Malaysia, we were promised the Floating Market. Something everyone is looking forward to. The front part of the market is actually stalls alongside the road before one actually reaches the river where goods are sold from the small sampan.

There was this stall which attracts the crowd. Worm feast. Totally creepy. Deep fried crickets and scorpions are in the menu as well. They actually smells delicious. Too bad I don't have the guts to try them out. Maybe next time when I decided to get adventurous.





Ice-cream made the traditional way. No electricity required.


A very old Thai temple


Pandan leaves folded into rose-like bundle selling at 10 Baht each

We reached the other side where the actual floating market located. This market is of total environment friendly as the containers for all the food including soup noodles are made of leaves, coconut shells or earth.



Mark the crowd


The drinks served in these cute container.


Colourful traditional delicacies


Different kinds of traditional Thai food

The market was crowded and more people came poring in as the day went by when its less hot.

We went back after our last stop and bid Thailand farewell. Reached Penang at around 12 midnight.

Thursday, September 9, 2010

寂寞寂寞就好


田馥甄 - 寂寞寂寞就好

还是原来那个我
不过流掉几公升泪所以变瘦
对着镜子我承诺
迟早我会还这张脸一堆笑容

不算什么 爱错就爱错
早点认错 早一点解脱

还是原来那个你
是我自己做梦你有改变什么
再多的爱也没用
每个人有每个人的业障因果

会有什么 什么都没有
早点看破 才看得见以后

我寂寞寂寞就好
这时候谁都别来安慰拥抱
就让我一个人去
痛到受不了
想到快疯掉
死不了就还好

我寂寞寂寞就好
你真的不用来我回忆里微笑
我就不相信我会
笨到忘不了
赖着不放掉
人本来就寂寞的

借来的都该还掉

我总会把你戒掉

麻……

昨天同样的时候
坐在同样的床上
用着同样的电脑
我们又聊天了

时间真巧
正当我想着我们已多久没联络的同时
我们聊天了

不敢任由自己胡思乱想
不愿让自己再次陷下
故意让自己表现得不在乎
但原来自己依然放不下
对你说的每一句话都耿耿于怀

曾经害怕生命中你从此消声灭迹
如今反而想不起有你的日子
不敢再想
也不愿再念
但原来记忆依然停留
静静的悄悄的在不知不觉下
一刀刀涌入心中

惊觉原来我不痛了
我不想了
不是因为复原了
而是因为麻木了
失去知直觉了

夜之四

是静的
是美的
让寂寞灵魂
出来遨游

是湿的
是热的
紧锁在眼眶
绝不掉落

是痴的
是狂的
受的伤再多
依然执著

已累了
放弃了
星光闪烁下
迷惘无助

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

人最软弱的地方是舍不得

Credit to Kanest Lee via Facebook

1.人最软弱的地方,是舍不得。------ 舍不得一段不再精采的感情,舍不得一份虚荣,舍不得掌声。------ 我们永远以为最好的日子是会很长很长的,不必那么快离开。------ 就在我们心软和缺乏勇气的时候,最好的日子毫不留情地逝去了。

2.这个世界上,总有一个人在某处等你。不在这里,不是此时,便会在那里,是彼时,等你。------ 有一个可以想念的人你就是幸福的。

3.我们再也回不去了 ------ 我们不可能再有一个童年;不可能再有一个初中;不可能再有一个初恋;不可能再有从前的快乐、幸福、悲伤、痛苦。------ 昨天,前一秒,通通都不可能再回去。------ 生命原来是一场无法回放的绝版电影!

4.没有人有耐心听你讲完自己的故事,因为每个人都有自己的话要说;没有人喜欢听你抱怨生活,因为每个人都有自己的苦痛;世人多半寂寞,这世界愿意倾听,习惯沉默的人,难得几个。------ 我再也不想对别人提起自己的过往,那些挣扎在梦魇中的寂寞,荒芜,还是交给时间,慢慢淡漠。------ 几米

5.再好的东西都有失去的一天,再深的记忆也有淡忘的一天,再爱的人,也有远走的一天,再美的梦也有苏醒的一天。------ 该放弃的决不挽留,该珍惜的决不放手。------ 分手后不可以做朋友,因为彼此伤害过!也不可以做敌人,因为彼此深爱过。

6.不要想如果…… 生命中不可承受之情,就在于人生没有重来的机会。如果当初如何如何,现在就不会怎样怎样……每一个岔口的选择其实没有真正的好与坏,只要把人生看成是自己独一无二的创作,就不会频频回首如果当初做了不一样的选择。……人生只售单程票,过去的就过去了,更重要的是走好后面的路。

7.一个今天抵得上两个明天。撕一张日历,很简单,把握住一天,却不容易。------ 相信别人,放弃自己,这是许多人失败人生的开始!------ 在最艰难的时刻,更要相信自己手中握有最好的猎枪。


8.遗忘,是我们不可更改的宿命,所有的一切都像是没有对齐的图纸。------ 从前的一切回不到过去,就这样慢慢延伸,一点一点地错开来。------ 也许错开了的东西,我们真的应该遗忘了。


9.别让深爱变成一种痛 ------ 如果你不爱一个人,请放手,好让别人有机会爱她。如果你爱的人放弃了你,请放开自己,好让自己有机会爱别人。------ 爱一个人不一定要拥有,但拥有一个人就一定要好好的去爱他。

10.生命中令人悲伤的一件事是你遇到了一个对你来说很重要的人,但却最终发现你们有缘无份,因此你不得不放手。------ A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you,only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.


11.一世容颜,过路的风景 ------ 红尘中,我们擦肩而过,到底,谁是谁的风景……我只知道当距离不再是距离的时候,我们一定会相遇,结成水,凝成冰,亦或,化作尘埃……但愿你是我最美的风景,我是你久等的归人


12.生命是一种过程而不是一个目的。------ 苦和甜来自外界,体味幸福则来自内心。------ 学会感恩,学会满足,让快乐溢满生命的花篮。------ 只要心是晴朗的就没有雨天!

13.什么是人生关键性的一刻 ------ 是一个决定;是一次选择;是向左,还是向右;是继续,或者放弃。------ 是跟过去告别的一刻;是勇敢擦拭伤口的那一刻;是抉择未来的那一刻。------ 要开心,先要“开”心


14.生命中,不断的有人离开或进入。于是,看见的,看不见了;记住的,遗忘了。------ 生命中,不断的有得到和失落。于是,看不见的,看见了;遗忘的,记住了。------ 然而看不见的,是不是等于不存在?记住的,是不是永远不会消失?

15.我们一生当中,并不可能只爱一个人,但往往有一个人让你笑得最甜,让你痛得最深,往往有一处美丽的伤口,成为你身体上不能愈合的一部分!------ 因为陌生,所以勇敢,因为距离,所以美丽。

16.一段不被接受的爱情,需要的不是伤心,而是时间,一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心,需要的不是同情,而是明白。------ 因为爱过,所以慈悲;因为懂得,所以宽容。

17.幸福不是终点------ 幸福是努力走过的道路,路上遇到的爱与感动,路上遇到的风雨、挫折、痛苦一起构成了这条路。------ 也是因为有了它们,我们才明白了幸福的真谛

18.当你一个人的时候,别想两个人的事,把回忆丢在一旁;------ 当你一个人的时候,只想高兴的事,把忧伤抛在脑后;------ 当你一个人的时候,来到一个人的浪漫,释放你的情感,敞开你的心灵。------ 其实一个人的时候,心在隐隐作痛,泪在蠢蠢欲动。

19.幸福的时刻,一半是和你在一起,一半是在梦里;------ 痛苦的时刻,一半是分离,一半是默默地想着你……

Cameron Highlands Trip

Finally we are going to Cameron Highlands!! It has only been one week since I last went there for CF Family Camp and here I go again. Last time I would think that it is a boring place, but now I like the tranquility and cool weather there.


Got up as early as 5am

As we got up Cameron Highlands on the winding road, the weather got colder. We switched off the air-conditioner in the car and wind down the window for natural breeze instead, sending chill down my spine.


We arrived at Tanah Rata at 11am. Our first stop is T cafe, also known as The Lord's Cafe which is famous for their home specialty strawberry scones.



Hilarious prayer for the tourists


Home specialty apple pie and strawberry scone, comes with the hand warmer, hot chocolate

Next, we went down to Brinchang. Our next stop, The Big Red Strawberry Farm. I think this is the biggest farm there with different layers for vegetables, flowers, cacti, strawberries and on the highest layer the souvenir shop and cafe.


Flowers of all colour


Fresh vegetables


Strawberry sundae from the cafe. I prefer McD's strawberry cornetto sundae. Hehe


Rose-looking cacti


Who said cacti are suppose to be dull?

Next up we went to Brinchang Hill where the Boh Tea Plantation is located. To go up here one has to go through the super narrow and winding as well as bumpy road. After that what lies before your eyes is simply picturesque.



Since we were at a tea plantation, what is better than having a hot cuppa tea? My mum was commenting on what a good life it is to have such laid back life after her retirement.

Boh green tea and being adventurous I ordered the fruit infusion flavour, strawberry & raspberry tea. It smells so good but tastewise? No comment



I'm picking tea! Haha

The last stop is the bee farm opposite the junction to Brinchang Hill. I love the honey produced there. Too bad the price had skyrocketed to RM22 per bottle. So I just bought one bottle.


The bee hives behind me

After done with all the shopping for sweetcorns and strawberries, we got down at 4pm. Reached home at around 7pm. Luckily we avoided the congestion at Seberang Jaya. Totally exhausted but had a great day.