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Friday, May 14, 2010

如果你还放不下

Credit to Tan Kok Kiong via Facebook

到现在还放不下对方吗
到现在还想着对方的一点一滴吗
有些人、有些事、我们 可能偏偏放不下
我来给你做个试验:
你拿着一个茶杯,然后就往茶杯里面倒热水,一直倒到水溢出来。
你烫到手的时候是马上松手吗?
知道我想说什么了吗?
这个世界上没有什么事是放不下的,痛了,你自然就会放下
忘了吧.所有你留恋的.回忆的.你拥有过的.
那些.都已是记忆.
缺失并不可怕.
可怕的.是无法面对.
你无法轻易忘记放弃.是因为你 付出过.
付出了.他就会像柱子一样扎根在心.
不要刻意去逃避.刻意忘记.那只会让你更痛苦.
绕开这个柱子.寻找未来的幸福生活吧.

那里.有你的理想.
开始新的习惯吧.
习惯.每天一个人生活.
习惯.一个人过生日.一个人行走.
习惯.走过熟悉的路.面对熟悉的景.
你逃不掉.逃不掉的.
那么.就勇敢面对.现实.
现实是.一切.画上了句点.
勇敢看着镜子中的自己吧.
这个悲 伤软弱满面憔悴的自己.
这也是你.成长中的你.
这个你.正在逐渐死去.
新的你.即将重生.
寻你的路.你的未来.
你知道的.所有的浩劫.都是成长的祭奠.
做最好的自己.即使.一个人.
好.好.尽情发泄吧.
剥开自己的心.用文字.用声音.用所有能发泄的方式.
泄完了.就要振作.

看吧.你失去的.其实微不足道.
还有那么多人关心着你.以不同的方式.
所以.你并不孤独.
正是这样的失去.让你看清现在所拥有的幸福.
别哭.别再哭.
不值得.真的.不值得了.
把过去尘封吧.别委屈.别不甘心.别不接受.
开始新的旅程吧.去遇见新的风景.新的际遇.
做你该做的事吧.有很多事.等待着你完成呢.
生活褪去了曾有的颜色.暂时宁静.
别沉沦在这片宁静里.那会毁掉你.
你要明白.虽然残 忍.但这个决定.足够正确.
现在的生活.不是你想要的.
为了你的理想.你必须学会适时放弃.
给对方最好的关怀.就是.变的更好.更强大.更幸福.
好好的对待对方是最好的,以后的时间是很长的,既然缘分让你们相交,记得珍惜
送给还在坚持的人们
有时候放手了
可能你就轻松一些了
记得要让自己高兴

I find this post very meaningful. You'll have to let go. Losing is not the worst thing. The worst thing ever is can't face the truth. And what is better is that he's not a bad and reckless guy. Everything is two-sided. I lost a relationship which cannot last but gained a friend for life. So still I gained more than I lost.

2 comments:

♥ y0keh@w 毓皓 ♥ said...

dear,i never see someone that can take a broken relationship in such a mature way...yes it hurts,n healing needs time...but your thinking had already buy u enough pain killer before the real pain fades totally....at least u will feel better from day to day...u've shown great strength,bravery,maturity and faith out of yourself....just want u to know, IM SO PROUD OF YOU. love you the more.

eMiLy said...

I don't know if I am the above as you complimented, but I think I've bring enough sufferings to my parents from my bad temper and emo self. I also want to keep my promise to him that is I'll live better and I don't want him to feel guilty anymore from our broke up. Thanks for all the support and caring. You guys helped me a lot. Love you too dear. I wish you all the best ever.